Tuesday, February 17, 2026

Western lesson

Liz is the best!! Oh what a fun day. Especially when I was cranky because I didn't have my truck. She came over to teach me a lesson on Funny and agreed to do Dan too and then help me with Lyric. And it was a fun day! And... Liz is amazing. She did homework! She watched some western dressage videos and did some research on the rules and such and prepared! Better than I did! :) Seriously impressed and genuinely honored that she went above and beyond for me. 

 

Dan was pretty filthy but I did a quick grooming and threw the bareback pad on and then the bosal and headed up to the arena. Liz said that he looked good, body wise. And we talked and she said she really thought that western dressage was going to be his jam. But she warned me that he was going to go on the forehand at first... and stay there for about 3 months, but then he would lift back up. So to be aware of it and not concerned by it. She likened it to building up a nice hunter too. And then she mentioned that she thought it could quite possibly build him up enough that he could go back to jumping some. So... cool! We'll see. But it doesn't matter. I'm sure I'll hop him over some logs here and there but I'm okay with not doing more. But she did mention that jumping him over some logs will be good for lightening up his front end again. She watched him go to warm up and said he looked sound but agreed he was dragging his toes. She said it looked more like lack of engagement than lameness, although once he was moving better, the right hind was still dragging a little. So, probably a tiny bit of lameness/biomechanical issues. But not bad. And she said he looked happy! Awwww.. I hope so! I do think he much prefers the bosal to a bit. 

We didn't do a ton of work but started off at the walk to make sure we had a halt. She wanted to install a one rein stop. So we practiced that. She had me take one hand and pull it straight back, from my elbow, until he was halted. Not once he started halting, but hold it until he stops. This is because we don't want to confuse the aids with a half halt or a turn. And I had to go back from the elbow... not to the side... not up. And it could be inside or outside rein.. didn't matter. We practiced with both reins and both directions and he got quicker and quicker. Cool! We talked about how in the beginning, I had to be rather "gross" or "amplified" in my aids until he figured it out and then, we would keep finessing it until it was super tiny and subtle. YES! That's what I want!

So then we worked on turning. The one rein stop is to stop. And that's straight back. To turn, I open my rein. And I got a bit confused and was opening it way more than I needed. Although sometimes I had to pull on him a bit. But in retrospect... and in a way of teaching him to neck rein so I can eventually convert to one handed riding, I can just move both hands to the right or both hands to the left. But only TO THE WITHER. Not past the wither. I'm never allowed to cross the neck.. english or western :) If I want to turn right, I can move my right hand open and move my left hand to the wither. This puts the left rein against his neck, thus neck reining him, but also encourages him to follow my opening right hand into a right hand turn. And again, eventually I can do this with just a tickle of the reins in my finger. Maybe. Hopefully! There is an art to it though... it's a bit of a delayed, slow, and pulsed aid. So if I'm doing a half circle, I should open my rein for two or three steps, then soften, then open my rein for two or three steps, then soften. Ask, allow, then soften to let him glide/follow through, then ask again. It sort of smooths it out. I got a bit too handsy and a bit too quick and big and didn't give it time to follow through, so we got a little fish tail/sling shot-y. I asked, then asked too much, then stopped asking, before he could even do it, so then he'd do it, and I'd have to ask for the opposite to correct the over ask. So... slow it down, breathe, ask small, wait... recieve... ask small, wait, recieve. And it helped. We didn't ping pong around as much. I also had to sit up and lift my inside shoulder to help lift his inside shoulder and then sit down and back on the outside hind. And I could use my outside leg to help guide him around. We talked about how I needed to pick a path... does leg mean move into my leg and around it, or does leg mean move away from pressure. While I want to ask him to bend around my leg, I think it'll be less confusing if I focus on asking him to move away from pressure, so... that's how I'm choosing to be consistent. 

We then moved to the trot and Liz told me that she did think I needed a whip to help encourage so I didn't nag every stride. Instead of kicking every stride, she told me to sit up and wrap my legs around him and think of lifting him up. Ahhhh, it definitely helped! He didn't necessarily get quicker with his limbs, which is what I think I want... but he felt like his hind end got quicker and more engaged. Which, even better!!! That's actually what I want! Faster doesn't mean more engagement Holly! So that was cool. And when he putz's out, I can whomp him with my leg or tap him with my stick, but... I need to not be nagging every stride. Maybe once a quarter of a circle! 

 

We made sure we had a one rein stop at the trot, which we did! Then we did some turns at the trot. It was harder than I thought! I mean... like I can ride him in a halter and do a turn, but.. to do it all correctly is hard. I'm trying to learn new muscle memory. Because... I need to keep my hands low. And my elbows need to stay at my side. And my movements need to be smaller. But it was fun! We started to get the hang of it. And yes, I'm still way over-riding it, but.. I'll cut myself some slack for our first official western lesson. 


Then, we tried the lope. And Liz had me try it from the trot because she felt that would be better for him. The first time, he sort of scrambled into it, but she thought it wasn't so much of a scramble as he just wasn't sure he heard the cue right. So we tried again and he got a pretty nice transition. He can't hold it long but he did sort of better than I expected! We went the other way and our transition upward was better. She told me that I was riding too "swingy" in my butt. She told me to "take it in the butt". Ha ha.. Excuse me but what?? Ha ha.. She meant that instead of sliding forward and back, like they tell you "wipe your butt on your saddle"... she wanted me to absorb the concussion in my seat... think of dribbling him vs swinging. Oh, just like with Funny! Lift him up into the saddle instead of riding the wave. And when I did that, he got much more collected and light and even tried to round himself up on his own! COOL! He fell out of it pretty quick, but that's okay. We haven't cantered but like 2 minutes total since July! And he probably hasn't done a ton of cantering in the field even. 

 
So yay! I think we're gonna like this new gig! 

Saturday, February 14, 2026

You can't get naked in other peoples cars!

Happy Valentines Day!!!

  

I have amazing friends!! We've been stuck at home because my truck is in the shop, and hasn't been cooperative lately. Add in the fact that the weather has sucked and work has been busy, we've been riding at home a whole lot more than usual, and riding in general a whole lot less. And today and yesterday were glorious weather! Although today was supposed to get cloudy and cooler in the afternoon. Since Dan was so good yesterday I was contemplating giving him the day off. Because, honestly.. I'm tired of arena riding him and  it's just not worth the stupid dogs harassing us in the neighborhood and... he cantered yesterday and maybe we shouldn't have... so I was just gonna give him the day off. Which would also mean that he would get Sunday off because it was supposed to rain ALL day, and then Monday off because I have to work. But... meh. But then... but then!!!! Sharon messaged just before lunch and asked if I was free to ride that afternoon if she came and got me! YES PLEASE!!!! So she did.

She had to do a few things first, which was great because it gave me time to eat lunch, hop on Funny real quick and then speed drag the arena. I had everything waiting on the street and Dan and I were ready! WHOO HOOO!! Oh, and while we were waiting I noticed his K-tape over his stifle was peeling, so I went ahead and pulled it off. It looks like a skinned animal! BUT IT HAS SPOTS!! Ha ha... Oh my! It's kinda horrifying!

She picked us up and Dan was a good boy and pretty much loaded right up. He's soooo much bigger than Baylor! Ha! I didn't realize how much bigger. They behaved and I don't think there were any shenanigans on the way there. Except that I missed a turn and we had to take a slight detour which included one of the dreaded mansfield speed humps. Hang on boys! 

We got to Charlie Elliot and by now the skies were a bit cloudy and it was a hair chillier, but... no rain and it wasn't too bad! YAY! We had a great ride. Dan led some of the way but then fatigued or just... I don't know.. Baylors' faster?? So we followed behind for most of the ride. Because we were running a hair short on daylight we trotted a bit more, but Sharon was nice and didn't let Baylor super power trot. Plus he wasn't cracked out on alfalfa pellets apparently ;) So Dan didn't have to get super strung out. We had a much more proper trot today. He wasn't exactly super soft and lifted in his back, but he wasn't on the forehand and running either. We even cantered a tiny bit. Although at one point Baylor was cantering and Dan was trotting like a darn standardbred before he finally rolled into the canter. We didn't canter for very long though, mostly because of terrain. 

 

We did more trotting and then later we picked up the canter again. And Dan got all pissy and took off and made a bid to beat Baylor! Like.. he sprinted! And then Baylor squirted off and then the boys were both making faces at each other and Dan went slightly to the edge of the path and we hit some terrain and.. it was all fine but luckily we were able to get both boys back to the walk without any real shenanigans. It just got rowdy for a minute ;) So then we had to have a polite trot to end on, and we did. 

   

Ahhhhh, I so needed that!! Dan did too. I did put him in the western bit and bridle today which was smarter than the bosal, although I still didn't have a ton of brakes. Not without a saddle and my core. Dan had plenty of butt foam when we finished. And he was a bit sweaty too. It's fairly warm for February and he's hairy! They both loaded right up to go home and were cooperative. But then Sharon didn't quite realize how quick my neighborhood turn came up and so she passed it so we went to the roundabout to turn around. But then she needed gas, so we got gas. I heard a bit of a thunk but didn't think anything of it... But then when we got to my house to unload Dan, it was getting dark. Luckily I didn't drop the butt bar without checking because I knew she had tied him so he didn't chew on Baylor. And.. he was naked!! Daniel.. you can't get naked in other peoples cars! KEEP YOUR CLOTHES ON BOY! ha ha... 

Super fun adventure and we both desperately needed that. I'm so grateful Sharon came to get me. :) It was a fun ride. 

 

 

Embracing the Western Pleasure

 bosal, jog and LOPE!!!

practiced some movements and some obstacles

quick ride

photos: 2-26 cantered

Tuesday, February 10, 2026

Western Pleasure Day

 

 Ugh.. today was frustrating. I probably shouldn't have ridden.. I wasn't in the best brain space. But I tried to be smart about it. I groomed Dan and he was pretty good. Then I put the bareback pad on and the western shanked bridle and decided to try to ride around the neighborhood. Maybe do some work in the tennis court field. So that's what we did. Except Tim's dogs chased us again. And Dan didn't care, but... they get so close to his heels I worry they'll start nipping and Dan will kick one. Plus the one keeps barking and it's just really annoying. Especially because the non-barky one ended up following us for a decent way. We made it to the tennis courts and I picked up the trot and Dan was pretty good. Although he still suddenly hits the brakes sometimes. I don't know if it's because I'm bareback and bouncing... because he fatigues... because he just hits his stifle wrong???? But it gets annoying. And I'm trying not to get after him, but... freakin' go!! And keep going!! Well, then he got all hollow and alert and I realized that stupid dog was lurking up by the tennis courts and Dan was all freaked out. Not enough that he was doing anything naughty but enough that I felt like if I kept trotting, he'd be hollow and bouncing me and it might escalate to shenanigans. Which... arghh!! Come on... I just want to ride my freakin' horse. I can't take him on the trails because I don't have my truck. I can't ride in my arena because he's a slug in there. Now I can't ride at the tennis court fields because of some dog who is WAY past his property.... Sooooo aggravating! And apparently I'm PMSing too I guess. So then I got mad and thought... what if we chase the dog?? Maybe we'll scare it off. Or maybe Dan will feel brave and not be "scared" anymore. Or maybe we'll just have fun practicing our "cow work" in anticipation of maybe getting to go to Aiken in two weeks for the intro to cow clinic. (sigh... that might honestly be what's bothering me... deep down, I'm frustrated because Dan has been rehabbing for... well, freakin ever... and I'm finally accepting that we'll just do this western stuff and yet, I can't even do that yet because he doesn't even feel good enough for that, and that makes me super sad...for him.... for me....). So we trot off towards the dog and the dog turns and runs, then spins back and barks, then turns and runs...  And then Dan got more freaked out and stuck his tongue over the bit. Sigh... okay... fine... I give up. Let's just go home. 

 

So we walked home and essentially "chased" the dog home. It barked at us a bunch more, and the other dog barked at us. And they got close to his hind end and I yelled at them. And Dan put his tongue back in his mouth and aside from jigging once, settled down. We got back home and headed up to the arena. 

 

Once we got to the arena I did some trotting. And he was okay. Just very behind my leg feeling and I had to keep clucking and kicking. And a few times I had to pony club kick him practically. And he felt like he was a western pleasure horse. He felt like he was  barely moving and dragging his hind end. And it's just... not fun. I tried to be positive. We practiced one handed riding and neck reining and he's actually pretty good at it for the most part. We did some shallow serpentines, some figure 8s overlapped, some circles, and some stops. Not too bad. Then I decided to see what happened if I asked for a left lead canter. And he hopped right into it and gave me a fairly respectable left lead for about 7 strides.. and then fell out of it. Okay.. no big deal. Thanks buddy. So then we did some more walking, then back to trot. Still sound! Phew! Well, "sound"... I mean he feels symmetrical but I wonder if he's just bilaterally lame. We did some leg  yield one handed, which was actaully quite decent too. Then we did some trot to walk to trot transitions. And then we trotted the alternating raised poles about 3 times. Then I trotted him to the small cross rail because he kept acting like he wanted to go towards it when we were leg yielding. And he perked up and might have even cantered the last stride to it and jumped it. He kind of landed in a heap and very quickly came back to the walk. We trotted a tiny bit more and then I got off to fix my exercises for Lyric that we had moved for the lessons. I put everything back and Dan just hung out where I left him. He did push one of my blocks around a tiny bit, but still... it's just not like Dan to be so... sane. :( It makes my heart sad because I think he really just hurts. And I've tried soooo hard and for soooo long to heal all his things... 

 

Once I got it all set back up, and I had set the three ground poles for serpentining to a raised ground pole, we tried that. And... he knocked if off a few times. And once he even rolled his foot on it and stumbled. And I'm ashamed but I got frustated. PICK UP YOUR FEET. PAY ATTENTION! It's really not that hard buddy. Just... walk! With purpose. Sigh... I got mad at him and then he got a little better with it. So then we did the side pass over the ground pole. It took him a minute but then once he got it, he did quite well. I rewarded him and didn't make him repeat it. Except, then I got back on and we trotted the alternating raised poles again and then we backed between the two blocks that I made an alley/gateway with. Then I took him over the groundpole and we sidepassed both ways. And it was only about 4 steps each way because we started in the middle of the pole instead of on the end. But he was good. GOOD BOY! All the pets and the last of the cookies. Then we headed home. 

 
I apologized to him but I don't know that it matters. I feel awful because I think he knows I'm frustrated for him... not with him.. not at him... but for him. Sigh... And then after I turned him loose, he didn't even roll. And he was pretty sweaty. So now I'm really worried. 

Sunday, February 8, 2026

Spa Day (edit)

 Opted to adjust, then red light sternum and massage/red light scapula and brachial plexus. k taped trigeminal nerve and stifle sling









Energetic

 Groundwork and then rode bareback in western bit


photos: energetic


Tuesday, February 3, 2026

Shenanigans

 Snuck in a hack with Sharon at CE. took the truck, drove fine, but has 14 recalls!!!!

rode in bosal. good boy. kind of. started out more marchy but fell back after a bit. baylor was amped though. good ride. trotted a fair amount. was a bit rushy and on the forehand because baylor was in front and she was letting him go. in the beginning suddenly super lame behind... stopped and then he walked off. hope he just hit a rock or something. cantered a little bit on his own and even jumped the mud puddle. i have very little control in the bosal ;) then trotting and let out a HUGE Buck... feral beasty, but.. maybe he's feeling good??? 

finished with a nice soft and balanced on the hind end trot. (or at least not on the forehand). he was sweaty and had LOTS of butt foam! but warm today considering.

shockwaved his tendon sheath tonight. licks and chews. used the 35 mm probe instead of the xtrode. 

photos: 2-26 shenanigans